Hey guys- so Ive been slacking on writing on here lately and I apologize! I have been working on a few things though and Ive seen nothing but good results. Ive really been trying to focus on working on my attitude and my outlook on things daily, such as waking up and instead of dreading the day I decide to be thankful for what I have and be happy that Im able to be here that day and its changed how I interact with others and how my mood is over the day. Ive also been trying to really watch my attitudes and make sure that I dont have any unnecessary ones. I believe I had more "attitude" when I was waking up upset or angry right off the get go and now that Im trying to be more thankful and accepting of a new day I can see that my overall mood is MUCH better. My hubs and I have been getting along great since we went to St.George for our mini anniversary get away last weekend and things have been awesome! I love it! I do have to say that most of the reason for us getting along so great is due to the fact that Im actually putting some effort into hearing what he says and trying to actually listen rather than take offense to absolutltely everything that he has to offer to me.
I think a lot of people tend to go into "victim mode" and tend to think that others are out to get them, when really most of the time those people who are out to get you are really just trying to help make your life a lil easier by giving you helpful tips. This is something that I am just now learning and it is a very valuable trait to learn. Ive always been the type of person to take EVERYTHING personnel and then become very defensive and upsest and I hated that about myself. For the last couple of weeks Ive been rally trying to not do that and it has made a few of my relationships much better and I feel much better and not so hostile. So my advice to all of you out there that tend to take things personnel- STOP IT! It only makes for an upset you! Try and take things and really listen to what the other person is saying and see how you can apply what theyve said to youre life. It might really help you!
Thanks all! Have a great weekend!
