So I was going to post the lyrics to the song, "I'm Bossy" if you all remember that song but the lyrics are about ridiculous talking about grillz on ma teeth and diamonds on ma neck Im the boss! lol so I thought Id better not- so hopefully you get the jist, which is I'm bossy.
This is a trait Ive noticed myself doing over the last few days and Im sure others have noticed it for much longer but I was listening to myself the other day and realized that I tend to bark orders at others instead of asking nicely or even asking at all- I tend to do this with my hubby the most and thinking about it I feel really bad that I do this. I guess I didnt realize how much I have to control things, which is just not a good trait to possess. So this was not on my original list of things I wanted to work on, but now that I am aware of this I really would like to change this. So for the next couple of days I am going to really focus on not bossing people around and letting things happen the way they happen. The things I struggle with the most in this area are: when I want to do something, I want to go right then and there- theres no time to waste- and thats when I tend to start bossing around. I also struggle with having to have things the way that I think is best- and sometimes I just dont need to have all control of things, who knows maybe if I let my husband make more of the decisions we might do better.
So this week Im going to make sure to be more calm and relaxed and just let things happen! Ill let ya know how it goes :) Thanks for reading!!!!
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