List of attributes/traits I want to acquire and/or work on

So today I did a lot of self reflecting and really thought about the kind of person I want to be. There are quite a few things I need to simply work on and then there are a few things that i need to learn how to do. As stated in the previous post, I am going to pick one of these things daily and work on it. If Im not as successful or if i feel that im struggling with one trait I will focus on that for more than one day. 

  I will then write about how the day went and what I may have learned from really focusing on that one trait I would like to posses. Any feedback is welcome. Thanks for listeninguys!

Here is my list of traits I would like to be able to say I have at the end of this:

1. A good listener

2. A trustworthy, honest person

3. An empathetic, caring person

4. A giving, selfless person

5. A good communicator

6. Someone who is able to solve arguments without yelling or showing anger

7. An advocate for others who cant be for themselves (ex: someone who volunteers at a womens shelter and can help others in need who domt believe they have a voice)

8. Someone who wants to learn as much as possible

9. Someone who doesnt fill their minds with junk (ex: crappy media like Kardashians or Real Housewives)

10. Someone who is able to let others talk without intervening and feeling the need to be apart of every conversation

11. A person who is comfortable with who they are as a person and doesnt apologize for things that dont need an apology

12. Someone who is proud of their beliefs and isnt afraid to show them

13. A finacially stable person

14. Someone who doesnt use body language and passive aggresiveness to express her feelings, but someone who is able to express herself in a healthy manner

15. A healthy, fitness orientated person

16. A sober person

17. A mother who is always teaching her daughter new things and always putting her first

18. Someone who knows what they want in the future and has a goal to get there

19. A confident woman who stands up for herself

20. Someone who doesnt use vulgar language 

The first trait Im going to start with is #10- someone who is able to let others talk without intervening and feeling the need to be apart of every conversation. I will start blogging about that tomorrow! 

Thanks!